Self Care

Science-Backed Ways to Feel Better Emotionally

This weekend election stress meets pandemic, which meets the end of daylight saving time. And it all collides with a potentially disappointing Halloween, a full moon, and Mercury is retrograde.

So we might all need a little extra self-care.

Good emotional health starts with keeping up on the basics: Get out of bed, get dressed, brush your teeth, eat some healthy foods. It can be tough when you just don’t feel like it, but you might be surprised at how much it lifts the mood.

If you need some quick pick-me-ups, science has identified some low-risk, high-reward ways to take care of yourself.

These are not substitutes for mental health therapy, medication, or your care provider’s recommendations. If you’re having a bad day or want to incorporate some self-care, these might help you feel better.


Exercise in all forms, including weight-lifting, walking or using an exercise bike is associated with reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety and better self-control. The standard recommendation is about 150 minutes per week or 20 minutes per day.

Researchers believe the mental health benefits come from distraction from depressing thoughts, a sense of self-confidence, and the release of endorphins. Endorphins are hormones associated with positive mood and sense of well-being.

There are no rules. Incorporate whatever physical activity you enjoy and the intensity and duration that feels good to you. If high intensity is hard for you, try yoga. The stretching and breathing exercises are good for the whole body, especially your lungs. However, if you feel any discomfort while doing breathing exercises, do consult a lung doctor (maybe check Gwinnett Lung) to make sure you are okay.


The same nutrition that facilitates a healthy body contributes to good mental health. You know what to do: Look for plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, nuts, seeds, and lean protein. Avoid added sugar and processed foods. A diet high in nutritious, whole foods was associated with lower risk of onset of depressive symptoms and anxiety.


Poor sleep can lead to depression, and depression can lead to poor sleep. That is why a good night’s sleep is crucial. However, not many can afford that. There are some who have symptoms of insomnia, which can inadvertently lead them to depression. Such people can always consider consuming medicines. However, if they do not want to take that route, they can consider trying out cannabis products like edibles (something like Left Coast Gummies), topicals, or tinctures.

Keep in mind that cannabis is quite popular nowadays among people of almost all age groups. Such people travel to lengths just to source the products–while some purchase the items on the Web, others buy them from their local dispensaries. The reason for this is that some studies suggest that CBD products (which can be purchased from the likes of green box dispensary) can make individuals feel calm, help the muscles to relax, decrease chronic pain, and provide anti-inflammatory effects, thereby helping individuals to get a good night’s sleep. Nevertheless, if you plan not to opt for the CBD route, then you can follow sleep hygiene guidelines which can also help promote sleepiness.


Nature is restorative and offers a break from daily worries. A daily walk during daylight hours has been found to improve mood. Even if you can’t get outside for 30 minutes, sitting by a window, exposure to bright lights, or looking at a houseplant can help improve mood.

Human connection

This is tough right now with so many things closed. Connecting virtually has pros and cons. Social media can make us feel bad when we’re exposed to triggering posts or comparing our lives to others. We can burn out on video conferencing. Virtual connections can also give us something to look forward to and let us see our loved ones’ faces. If possible, look for ways to connect in real life with some distance. Perhaps indulging in sexual activity can also make you feel better. However, one can also take the route of self-pleasure by using male sex dolls for masturbation, which can reduce stress and help you relax.


Doing something for someone else can give you a sense of purpose and a confidence boost. Whether it’s sorting donations at the food bank, planting trees, or mentoring a child, find something that interests you and give it a try.

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